The
Gift
Our 21 year old son Jonathon Michael Wood was killed in an auto accident
caused by a drunk driver on October 23, 1993. Michael stayed in a coma
until his death on October 27, 1993. Michael's best friend, Michael Chadwick
was killed instantly in the same accident. The driver had minor injuries
but is fine today.
The following is a gift we received on Monday 7/29/96 at 7:30am. A man
called my husband and I that we had not heard from or spoken to in 10 years.
He and his wife were friends of ours when we lived in Maryland. His name
is Jim. When I answered the phone that Monday morning wondering who was
calling that early and Jim said hello I was more than a little surprised!
Poor Jim was not sure what to say so he talked about general stuff for
a while and then asked about our boys at which point I told him of our
loss. Jim said "I have a message for you."
He told us that he had been in an accident and gave us the details as
follows. Jim was stopped on the side of a road looking at a map when an
eighteen wheeler hit the back of his car at 63 mph. The back of his car
was pushed into the back seat and Jim was pinned in with almost every bone
in his body broken or crushed including his back and neck. He regained
consciousness and found a young woman at the window on the drivers side.
He told her he was in extreme pain and could she help him lower his seat
to help stop the pain - she said "no your back and neck are broken
you must stay still" She then called 911 on his car phone and told
them she was an emergency trauma nurse. She told them his condition and
to skip the ambulance just send a helicopter. Jim then lost consciousness
again.
When he came to there was a policeman at the window. Jim asked him where
the woman was that had called in the accident and the policeman said that
there was no woman there and he was the first on the scene. To this day
the woman has not been found but her voice is on the 911 tape.
Jim was then transported to a hospital and during the transport he died
and was brought back by the paramedics. Upon reaching the hospital ER he
died again - Jim does not know how long he was gone. But he does know where
he was! I do not wish to go into the whole story detail by detail because
it is his story to tell, but I will hit the highlights. He was with his
Grandmother and met his Grandfather for the first time. (his Grandfather
died 10 years before Jim was born) His grandparents showed him many things
that we all have to look forward to, and gave him lessons to show him how
his life and actions touch many others. The most important part of that
lesson was to love everyone because everything you do or don't do, or say
or don't say, not only effects and reflects you and your spirit but those
who are around you and their spirit, and those who are around them etc.
etc. etc. in an ever widening circle of good or bad. And it all starts
with each one of us. His Grandmother also told him something that I have
since spent a lot of time thinking about "On earth we are not Humans
trying to learn to be Spiritual - we are Spirits trying to learn Humanity."
Jim was then shown a young man with rosy cheeks and soft eyes who seemed
to be very excited to see him. The young man told Jim "I am fine -
I am very happy - this is a wonderful place." Jim did not recognize
this boy. But the boy kept telling Jim that he was fine and happy. Jim
finely asked this young man who he was. The young man said "it's me
-- Michael". "Michael who?" Jim said. The young man answered....
"Michael Wood."
The miracle of this ..... Jim did not know Mike had died. Jim pondered
calling us for many, many months. He was afraid we would think he was nuts
or lying or trying to scare us. Jim was having dreams every night of this
same scene with Mike until his wife Cindy told him to contact us - which
wasn't easy since we had lost contact over the years and Jim only knew
that Tom had worked for DuPont. Jim contacted DuPont's home office and
was then able to find us. Once he had made the decision to give us Michael's
message the dreams stopped.
Thank you Jim and Cindy for giving us Mike's message and a great deal
of peace. We no longer worry because we know Mike is in a safe and wonderful
place - something we already knew, but it sure was nice to have it confirmed
by Mike himself! And, we know that Mike is waiting to welcome us to the
next life just as we welcomed him to this one. I asked Jim - if he has
any further contact with Mike would he please ask him to phone home!
P.S. The woman at the scene of the accident . . . Jim is sure she was
one of his guardian angels - and so are we! --Mrs.
Wood
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